Natasha & Lloyd’s Autumn Wedding at Elmore Court, Gloucestershire – Featuring a Bespoke Hermione de Paula Gown

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We’re so excited to share Natasha and Lloyd’s sublime October wedding at the iconic Elmore Court in Gloucestershire.

Natasha, Operations Manager for Dearborn Estates (the team behind Kin House, LIMEKILN, Millbridge Court, and Hyde House), and Lloyd, Executive Steward at the Four Seasons in Hampshire, planned a day filled with elegance and warmth.

It’s a real joy to see that the couple collaborated with four Love My Dress recommended suppliers to bring their vision to life; the talented Carrie Lavers captured every magical moment, Rewritten bridesmaids provided contemporary style, Furniture on the Move added statement pieces to their chic setup, and Elmore Court set the stage for an unforgettable celebration.

Natasha’s breathtaking bespoke and delicately embroidered gown by Hermione De Paula perfectly reflected the autumnal charm and creative spirit of the day, making this wedding a true masterpiece of love and inspiration.

Immense love and thanks to this beautiful bride for making this feature possible and sharing such kind words about Love My Dress – Natasha, you have no idea how much this means! Enjoy!

Bride wearing a Hermione de Paula wedding dress and holding a beautiful Autumn wedding bouquet. She is photographed with her groom during golden hour.

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Elmore Court wedding venue in Gloucestershire, The Cotswolds.

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Bridal Beauty & Accessories

I took way too long contemplating my scent. I opted for Eleventh Hour from Byredo after finding it in Space NK the day I chose my dress and I bought it in Heathrow airport a month before the wedding after smelling it again and knowing it was long lasting.

I’ve always been a bit of a shoe addict; however, the length of my gown dictated the height of the shoe and Instagram Ads suggested the exact shoe, thanks no doubt to algorithms of me searching. I ordered them online and they were in the sale, winner. They were by Monsoon.

Green velvet block heel wedding shoes by Monsoon.

Olivia Mills was the very first supplier I booked, even before the venue! I have had the pleasure of working with Olivia at many, many weddings at Millbridge Court and she has become a dear friend of mine. I cannot recommend her enough and my mum after having her make up done on the day asked if we could take her home with us.

I have seen time after time Olivia go above and beyond on a wedding day, she’s like having another bridesmaid in the room. One who is calm and can help with any morning nerves all whilst making you feel your very best.  My hair accessories were by Tilly Thomas Lux.

Red haired bride wearing star wedding accessories in her hair.

The Dress

Hermione de Paula


As I was getting ready, I wore a Rewritten dress that one of my bridesmaid’s mum’s shortened and added a feather trim to.

Red haired bride receiving her Autumn wedding bouquet on the morning of her wedding. She wears a pale blue dress with an ostrich feather trim.

My bridal gown was by Hermione De Paula. Claudia at Hermione de Paula was the most perfect stylist I could have hoped for. We spent six months firming up the exact gown, she was so very patient with me.

Every visit to the studio was a dream and like visiting an art gallery. They recently moved to a new space in Islington which is equally as inspiring! 

Close up shot of a Hermione de Paula bridal gown with personalised embroidered train.

I found choosing the dress difficult as I have worn many bridal dresses as a performer at wedding fairs and photoshoots. My friends and family have seen me in beautiful white dresses, so it was important for me to have something different.

I was drawn to the Fern & Rose demi couture gown but wanted a different back line and a splash of colour on the train, so all those bespoke elements were drawn up for me. I even have a beautiful, framed sketch of my dress from the design stage.

Red haired bride in a Hermione de Paula bridal gown with personalised embroidered train.

I wore a slip under the dress for our ceremony and drinks reception but whipped it off for dinner. I did have to pop it back on for fear of flashing when dropping into splits in the evening but I’m very much looking forward to one day wearing my dress without the slip for a romantic beach dinner somewhere hot. 

I pinch myself that I am the very proud owner of a piece of Hermione’s work and one day will get my dress transformed so I can wear it again. If you are considering Hermione you won’t regret it! 

Elegant close up shot of bride holding her hand to her chest with the focus on a delicate chain around her neck.
Bride seated as she puts on her dark green platform heel shoes. She wears a Hermione de Paula bridal gown with personalised embroidered train.

I’ve loved Rewritten dresses for years so I knew they were going to be my go-to for my girls. We went for different styles, shapes and colours to suit them.  I wanted my girls to feel completely them on the day, so they all chose their own shoes and accessories. On the morning I gave them all a Jo Malone scent that represented them to me. 

Bridesmaids wearing Rewritten Bridesmaids dresses.

Venue & Location

We got married at Elmore Court located in Gloucestershire. After presenting Lloyd with an epic spreadsheet of wedding venues (I feel this could be my Mastermind subject), he asked me to whittle it down to three. I had already budgeted the lot and only showed him venues I knew we could afford.

Having worked in venues I knew exactly what I wanted. We got engaged whilst we were developing Kin House so it was a really tough call not to opt for Kin but I knew that I wanted a place that would be special to us and somewhere I could switch off and just be a Bride. 

Wedding ceremony seating at Elmore Court wedding venue in Gloucestershire.
Bride and groom in a shower of confetti outside Elmore Court in Gloucestershire.

The Ceremony


My Papa walked me down the aisle. I always knew this would be a fun moment rather than emotional as when I took my parents to see Elmore and my mum suggested we practice walking down the aisle my dad started to act out the Ministry of Silly Walks sketch from Monty Python.

We walked down the aisle to ‘Is this Love?’, by Bob Marley, however we asked Thom to take the Luke Burr cover as inspiration. 

Father of the bride accompanies his bride down the aisle at Elmore Court

As I walked down the aisle the sun shone through the stain glass windows and I’ve never felt so full of love in a room. It really is the most peculiar feeling. For me I felt really present in the ceremony as if time slowed before the rest of the day became a whirlwind of delicious food and countless hugs.

Having watched many of my couples marry I always knew I wanted to have personal vows. 

Groom in black tie turns to see his bride for the first time at Elmore Court in Gloucestershire.

Lloyd’s vows;

“Natasha, all the years we have grown together have been leading to this moment. Since meeting you, my life has been imbued with joy. Each and every day with you is truly wonderful, none more so than today, here together, in front of most treasured people. Life, however, now feels incredibly short, and all our time together too precious to waste.

I therefore swear, that I will do all I can, to be your backbone, your confidence, your comfort and your laughter. I swear that no matter the circumstance, you will remain my utmost priority, your happiness paramount, and your love my nourishment. I will be yours forever, for whatever you need me to be. Because as today surely proves, our souls belong together.”

Wedding at Elmore Court in Gloucestershire.

My vows

“Today, surrounded by our loved ones, I choose you to be my husband and to join my life with yours. What a life we have already created and with so much to still enjoy. If the last 6 years have shown us anything, it is that we are resilient, determined and designed to fit together. I couldn’t ask for a better partner to tackle the highs and lows of life with. Therefore, my promises to you are…

I promise to continue to love you with every fibre of my being, with a passion that can’t be expressed in words, only in kisses at red lights, knowing looks and years of adventure by your side.

Hermione de Paula bridal gown with personalised embroidered train.

I promise to join in with your silly dance moves, to understand your strange made-up words and faux German language.

I promise to make the most of every moment with you and always give you my very best as you deserve. 

Today I choose you, I’ll choose you over and over and over and over, without pause, without doubt, I’ll keep choosing you. Forever.”

Lloyd’s Grandpa is known for writing the odd poem for a birthday card so we asked if he would write something for us and for Lloyd’s Grandma to read it for us during the ceremony.

Bride and groom raising their arms joyously after their wedding ceremony at Elmore Court in Gloucestershire.

It was a very much a past to present look on our lives and filled with lots of humour. Because it was written for us about us it felt that bit more special.

Lloyd had my engagement ring made by Richard Herold, a family run business in Farnham. We can’t thank Richard & Vanessa more for their help from engagement ring to my necklace on the wedding day. At time of writing, they are in the process of closing their store as they retire. I’m so sad to see the jewellers close but very thankful for our beautiful pieces. 

For the ceremony and drinks reception we had the wonderful Thom Music. I’ve been a big fan for years, having worked with Thom and capturing his warmups at weddings as soon as Lloyd gave me the green light to add live music for the ceremony, I knew it had to be Thom, no short list needed.

Photography & Videography

Having worked with so many wonderful suppliers over the years working in weddings & events I found this a real challenge so for all our suppliers I worked out a short list and Lloyd made the final choice.

We had Carrie Lavers shoot our day, we were drawn to her romantic moody style and after booking her it was only when I was catching up with my friends that it clicked that she had shot my friend’s wedding and months later we had bumped into each other at a A Most Curious Wedding Fair and she recognised me from the dance floor (I have a habit of dropping into a split). 

Red haired bride and her groom photographed at golden hour. She wears a Hermione de Paula gown and carries an autumn bouquet.

By the time I had convinced Lloyd to let me book a videographer my shortlist were fully booked, so we turned to Elmore’s recommended list and after speaking to Craig from Amazing Dayz we felt in very safe hands and are so pleased that we have our loved ones captured to rewatch over the years to come.

How They Met

We met in 2017 when I was cast as Captain Scarlet at Pirates Mallorca, Lloyd was working on the same show and said my name jumped out at him when he seen the cast list for the coming year…he said Hi at the staff water cooler and the rest is a romantic summer!

After my contract I came back to the UK and got back into the wedding industry, and we kept our relationship going with thanks to EasyJet. Lloyd moved back home in 2019; we moved in together in January 2020 and got in engaged in the crazy summer of 2021. 

We were both working in hospitality and knew that a wedding in 2022 would be out of the question, so we gave ourselves plenty of time to plan and opted for October 2023. 

Bride sat on the grand piano at Elmore Court next to the stained glass window. She wears a bespoke Hermione de Paula wedding dress with embroidered ferns and flowers and platform shoes.

The reason we fell for Elmore Court was due to the beauty of the historical house with its stain glass windows and main house bedrooms along with a sustainability led dining and party space, the Gillyflower. The owner Anselm’s passion project of Rewilding was something that resonated with us. 

Wedding reception space at Elmore Court in Gloucestershire. Modern glass chandeliers hang above the tables and below, long tables are lined with pale linen table clothes and table ends are decorated with meadow style flowers. Dark green napkins and tall dark green tapered candles.

We are both people pleasers, so we really wanted the day to be guest focused. We wanted a free-flowing drinks reception, delicious food and excellent music. I’ve always been a lover of autumnal florals and I’m a self-confessed candle addict, so we leaned into the season and the venue.

The Reception

Our caterers were Kalm Kitchen. Having worked closely with the Directors we simply had to have them caterer our day. I am so grateful to Jen, James and their team for looking after us from initial enquiry to delivering the event. The wonderful Jen even created a dried floral backdrop for our top table.

Their ethos is to leave guests feeling utterly delighted and they did not disappoint! Guests are still talking about our pudding. 

Although I’m a huge fan of cake, Lloyd isn’t so we opted to just have a big stash of Lindt truffles for guests to help themselves to throughout the evening. 

Wedding reception space at Elmore Court in Gloucestershire. Table ends are decorated with meadow style flowers. Dark green napkins and tall dark green tapered candles.

Our florist was Nicky Doodson – I also met Nicky working at Millbridge Court, she created the beautiful florals for an intimate wedding for 15 before putting on a beautiful hot pink dress and becoming a guest herself. 

I was really impressed and approached her to ask her to become a Partner at Millbridge, she said she would love to but was relocating to Gloucestershire, so when we booked Elmore, she was top of my shortlist. Having never worked at Elmore before we met Nicky onsite, and she really guided us taking our initial thoughts and creating the perfect design within our budget. 

We were both absolutely blown away by our florals and I distinctly remember walking down the aisle and clocking the florals before anything else (sorry husband!).

Dried flowers and leaves hanging.

I naively thought to save money we would do all the stationery ourselves, but I really wasn’t happy with the options, so I reached out to the super talented Freya of Deabill & Quince another industry friend who I had met through working at Soho Farmhouse.

Father of the bride in shirt and bow tie delivering a speech at a wedding reception at Elmore Court.

Freya took my initial concept and ran with it, creating something special for us and our guests. She was launching a William Morris collection; we wanted the stationary to complement our napkins that all existed within his prints / patterns, so it all pulled together rather wonderfully. 

Abi from The Knotted Napkin Co was another superstar supplier, she created use bespoke napkins based on our colour palette as each table had their own napkin to co-ordinate with the table plan rather than a table name or number.

The guys from Farnham Sound & Light and Neon Sign Co kindly lent us a neon sign for our dance floor but our band provided the rest to complement the built in disco ball Elmore have as a permanent feature.

Neon sign: I bet you look good on the dancefloor.

Evening & Dancing

For the evening, we had the house band from New Power Soul Club. They played at my sister-in-law, Beth’s wedding, and we LOVED them so it was an easy choice and I nice connection! 

We chose ‘Lola’s Theme’, from Shapeshifters; we never were going to be a slow and romantic kind of couple and I even dragged Lloyd to ballroom lessons to boost his confidence and we spent evenings choreographing a routine to kick start the party.

Bride and groom taking their first dance. Behind them streamers hang from the ceiling and a professional wedding band is playing.

Inspired by the fantastic Rachel from Salt and Scent, we wanted to make the dance floor pop, so we hired streamers from All a Flutter. Kate was incredibly helpful throughout, putting together colour combos and even sourcing a new colour for me! It couldn’t have been easier. She shipped them to the venue, the lovely staff at Elmore put them up and took them down for me and then a courier collected them. Seamless!

We hired cross back chairs from Valley Furniture Hire for our dining tables. In addition we sourced comfy seating from Furniture on the Move to create a lounge space by the bar and poseur tables for the dance floor. 

Words of Wedded Wisdom

This is oddly something I say at work a lot, ‘always remember the why.’ Wedding planning is a real rollercoaster. Firstly, it’s a full-time job, hence the importance of wedding planners in our industry, secondly, it’s a huge financial yet emotional investment which can be a real challenge to manage. Keep bringing yourself to the reason why you are doing something with every decision to stay true to what you want. 

I would consider a slightly earlier ceremony with a longer drink’s reception. I also wonder if a first look with Lloyd and couple photos before the ceremony would have allowed more time to be present with our guests. 

I think I would also have had an evening dress on my credit card – but only if it was a Hermione de Paula dress!   

I also think we would have had an on the day co-ordinator to take all my plans and make them fully realised. I am a huge stickler for detail and I think they would’ve taken some of these duties off me on the day itself and on pack down the following morning. 

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